tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post1515785956463430124..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Everythings Amazing & Nobodys Happyjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-54355500191213579702012-03-08T14:56:22.280-05:002012-03-08T14:56:22.280-05:00If K and AJ didn't want Jim and T on the cruis...If K and AJ didn't want Jim and T on the cruise, they wouldn't be planning it that way. It would be their call (and Jim and T's) to decide if all the togetherness would be too much. <br /><br />Speaking as the wife of a 45 yr old man who outed himself to me 6 months ago and is now going through the hell of figuring out the best path for all of us, I think Jim has behaved with remarkable consideration for his ex-wife, her new husband, his children and his partner. <br /><br />That said, it does seem poor T always has numerous household and gardening chores that need to be done that Jim could take care of instead of going on the cruise. :-)<br />Just kidding - go have fun on the cruise. Kids grow up way to fast and when they do, they have busy schedules which often preclude family vacations such as this.<br />-IrisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-79637109418709832902012-03-07T19:39:19.544-05:002012-03-07T19:39:19.544-05:00Mr. Anonymous can fuck himself.Mr. Anonymous can fuck himself.jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-8309104613838565882012-03-07T19:34:04.000-05:002012-03-07T19:34:04.000-05:00Dude -- you need to get your own life.
You left y...Dude -- you need to get your own life.<br /><br />You left your wife and kids to be a homo, so go do that. Don't hang out with your ex-wife and her new husband and be a pest.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-82114772064219552602012-03-07T14:05:01.630-05:002012-03-07T14:05:01.630-05:00I've been on 7 cruises on 3 different lines. ...I've been on 7 cruises on 3 different lines. The longest was 8 days, the shortest 3. The kids have been on two of them.<br /><br />The cruise lines know that parents want their kids to come but they also want to enjoy an adult vacation. Therefore they employ quite a few full-time 20-somethings who are responsible for keeping the kids onboard happy, busy and entertained. Your kids will have a blast, even on an 8 day cruise. That might seem like a long trip but the port stops break the time up. Eight days will fly by.<br /><br />Also, every night on every cruise I've been on there's been a GLBT social hour. My last two cruises were off-season so these social hours were sparsely attended but at least they would give you and T a chance to meet and socialize with other gay and lesbian couples. At a minimum it adds to the diversity of social options while you're onboard.<br /><br />Personally, the only reason I would not go is if you have good reason to worry about conflict with K or AJ. There's nothing worse than paying for a vacation and not being able to enjoy it because too much togetherness causes friction.TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-35046653583859670672012-03-07T03:37:46.754-05:002012-03-07T03:37:46.754-05:00Relax - a crusie ship has lots to offer for the ki...Relax - a crusie ship has lots to offer for the kids so they will enjoy it. You'll porbably won't see them - just for the meals. <br />I think you all do great in accepting each other - it doesn't matter that sometimes you just don't agree ;)<br />I think the idea is a very nice one, especially because you involve T, too. You wife shows acceptance, something that should go without saying (you do the same) but let's be realistic, isn't? So be happy about that - imagine her relaxed because she gets pamperd on the cruise...any you and T having some quality time. ;)Nennenoreply@blogger.com