tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post2677206327336613141..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Lucky? In Many Ways.jimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-83147919365683433162010-01-17T16:29:24.380-05:002010-01-17T16:29:24.380-05:00I was not offended and sometimes it is helpful to ...I was not offended and sometimes it is helpful to hear thing you'd rather not hear.<br /><br />No worries.jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-87264625247680819222010-01-17T04:36:27.106-05:002010-01-17T04:36:27.106-05:00I didn't mean to be controversial or judgmenta...I didn't mean to be controversial or judgmental in any way and if I have offended you I apologise. <br /><br />It's clear that you take your life very seriously, but I'm not sure if you take it a little too seriously and maybe you need to go easier on yourself and not over-analyze everything in such detail.<br /><br />You are what you are and you must learn to live with that. Obviously easier said than done.<br /><br />Wishing you good luck.The Lion Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17241533983667513498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-32290063898106854302010-01-15T04:43:09.440-05:002010-01-15T04:43:09.440-05:00I was wondering about what does 'T' have t...I was wondering about what does 'T' have to say about all this. I don't know if he's married as well, as you are or not. Is he willing to wait for you? For how long do you think he'll be there waiting? How's your relationship now?Nik_TheGreekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00986723570093229435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-63657508847609852522010-01-14T23:43:54.893-05:002010-01-14T23:43:54.893-05:00Well, having seen this up close and personal in BF...Well, having seen this up close and personal in BF's life I would think that the "being lucky" is not lucky at all. Like your situation she agrees to it, but hates it the same. It again comes down to integrity and actually striving to become "more" than what we are. Staying in your "lucky" situation means destroying her bit by bit. I don't know how BF lives with it (other than believing her lies that it is "okay") I don't see how you could live with it either.<br /><br />As for being happy.... You will... this struggle... similar in many ways to both BF and me... You NEED this struggle. Without it, you would not be taking either your vows or your own sexuality seriously. It speaks to the fact that you do indeed have integrity. <br /><br />I BELIEVE that this struggle, this depression, this fence sitting... it really shows that you take your life, your word seriously. So struggle away. You will get to where you need to be even if it is not in the time that others think it should be. IT WILL BE at the correct time.... "At the fullness of time.... God came...."<br />JimJRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240995208582382592noreply@blogger.com