tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post3023930900563388043..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: I Can Still Be The Manjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-82574870181761135942010-12-13T12:36:35.187-05:002010-12-13T12:36:35.187-05:00What matters is that you are comfortable with your...What matters is that you are comfortable with your decision to allow AJ's help, or not.<br /><br />My dear friend Charlie is quite handy, with a "get it done in the fastest, sloppiest way possible" work ethic. I have acquiesced to his help many times but I hate doing it. So, I'm speaking more for myself than you - I'm glad you said no. Even if it would have been easier for you, even if you could have helped T. I suppose it's all about self-image. Being self-reliant is alpha. Who wants to be the beta dog in their own house?TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-87706632654705697352010-12-13T00:35:34.262-05:002010-12-13T00:35:34.262-05:00It's funny how territorial we can become, and ...It's funny how territorial we can become, and at the oddest of times, yeah? Yes, you can change the outlet yourself, without breaking a sweat.....but do you want to? Like you said, you could have used the time to make T happy, or do something completely different. But the deal is, its still your house, your castle, YOURS! I totally get it.Biki Honkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06731335682679434307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-45723172779219075642010-12-12T21:20:48.748-05:002010-12-12T21:20:48.748-05:00I was about to suggest you spend that extra time m...I was about to suggest you spend that extra time making me happy...Since you have not yet helped me with the garden, I am going to make you make me bird houses, tree benches, on top of weeding, blowing the leaves, hanging the Christmas lights, trimming the bushes, and...yes, fertilize the plants.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.com