tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post3202998650636587376..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Some People Complain too Muchjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-2191508811344362712011-08-03T00:35:35.215-04:002011-08-03T00:35:35.215-04:00Agreed that lots of women like to complain. Your ...Agreed that lots of women like to complain. Your job as the husband is just to listen sympathetically, but not try to solve the problems. I don't think they are necessarily unhappier than us men, but they need to vent and don't hold things in as much. Just my take.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12775219683154536934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-76693085804467676102011-08-01T20:53:25.454-04:002011-08-01T20:53:25.454-04:00Lots of women are like this!Lots of women are like this!RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-62443852919012670102011-08-01T02:10:46.795-04:002011-08-01T02:10:46.795-04:00Enjoy things as you go.
Some people enjoy being un...Enjoy things as you go.<br />Some people enjoy being unhappy as others mentioned.<br />But you can't judge K when you and T hasn't gotten where she is with AJ.<br />Moving in with the guy you love is a happy stressful thing, specially when one or both parties go gay and that's when all hell break loose. :-D<br />Have fun and be as gay s you can with T! (Be aware of his Confucius too! :D)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-58392011982935338062011-08-01T01:39:04.295-04:002011-08-01T01:39:04.295-04:00As someone who has had to live in "female-lan...As someone who has had to live in "female-land" this is my take on women. To me it seems like most women enjoy being unhappy. They love to pick and complain, whine and moan, when there really isnt one tiny reason to do so. Let it go in one ear and out the other. She is living in the land of luxury and plenty and cant see the bon-bon's for the candy.<br /><br />I'm glad you found your happiness, isnt that what life is supposed to be, happy? And we all (hopefully) find our way to happiness before the curtain drops.Biki Honkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06731335682679434307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-37625339114448747372011-07-31T16:10:29.835-04:002011-07-31T16:10:29.835-04:00Don't let her unhappiness get to you. She may ...Don't let her unhappiness get to you. She may not be capable of having happiness. If she's at all like my ex-wife, she may feel a loss of control and when she can't call all the shots, she feels powerless. She has choices, just as you have choices. The difference is you choose happiness, T and a brand new life exploring, celebrating together. Enjoy that journey!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-86082399711111785492011-07-31T00:47:48.360-04:002011-07-31T00:47:48.360-04:00Jim,
You are redundant in your writing. BFF by it...Jim,<br />You are redundant in your writing. BFF by itself means gay...LOL. Just kidding. I love my gay Jim. Oops, I'm being redundant, too. Jim, by himself, is gay. Just kidding, again. Jim, by himself, doesn't look gay at all. Jim + T looks GAY...a White guy and an Asian guy.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-44793115647556981092011-07-30T23:39:01.395-04:002011-07-30T23:39:01.395-04:00I don't think she is being disloyal. After al...I don't think she is being disloyal. After all, I'm her gay BFF. That's what I'm here for.jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-13742557914983959482011-07-30T23:15:05.630-04:002011-07-30T23:15:05.630-04:00My estranged wife is similar: complain, complain,...My estranged wife is similar: complain, complain, complain. I've long thought that she is incapable of happiness. <br /><br />As a contrast, your happiness shines through in your writing; it is a wonderful quality and one that is very attractive to many.<br /><br />It must be a bit awkward when K is complaining to you about AJ; she's really being disloyal to him. If their relationship is to be successful, she needs to speak to him directly about her concernsBuddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-42947367663451435972011-07-30T22:51:44.158-04:002011-07-30T22:51:44.158-04:00Jim,its been my experience that some people are ha...Jim,its been my experience that some people are happiest when they are miserable. Nothing we can do about it.<br /><br />I think you're on the right track and that's all that really matters.<br /><br />:-)JustAMikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02304812477710391158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-40909277681303386712011-07-30T22:08:13.931-04:002011-07-30T22:08:13.931-04:00Good for you for being happy even though you don&#...Good for you for being happy even though you don't have a lot. That's great :)the island guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00355871943605164640noreply@blogger.com