tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post4277101619134324142..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Stuckjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-6322595930127618722014-12-03T00:28:42.294-05:002014-12-03T00:28:42.294-05:00Try to stop meassuring your life on if you find a ...Try to stop meassuring your life on if you find a loving relationship. Start loving yourself and get comfortable in your life without a partner. Do stuff you like to do, be happy with yourself. If hanging out with your kids makes you happy, isn't that great? Don't give yourself the feeling that you have "failed" because you don't have a partner. <br />It seriously isn't the only way to be happy. Treat yourself with little steps to something that you enjoy...either a walk in the park, some reading time or visiting a christmas market. Yes, do it alone. Start to be comfortable doing stuff alone. Or meet with people you don't scan for potential "partner". Build yourself a life you can be happy with - alone. <br />Sounds harsh? It isn't. It's a win-win situation. It makes you more confident, it should make you happier. In case you suddenly find someone - it doesn't hurt to live your life independently in the beginnning. I don't say that you should accept staying single forever but I say that you should built your life on yourself, not someone else. Good luck.Sunnenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-55018437823847203722014-12-02T12:41:19.467-05:002014-12-02T12:41:19.467-05:00It sounds like you could use a mini vacation to ge...It sounds like you could use a mini vacation to get away from everyone and everything and just recharge. <br /><br />Treat yourself! All the best :)Average gay dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03042171594173497299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-82807957982066397622014-12-01T10:30:23.932-05:002014-12-01T10:30:23.932-05:00If you always do what you've always done,
You&...If you always do what you've always done,<br />You'll always get what you've always gotten.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-52231917627859994832014-11-25T21:35:32.522-05:002014-11-25T21:35:32.522-05:00Its hard to loose a dream that you held tight for ...Its hard to loose a dream that you held tight for so very very long. The dream of you and T, together, actually together in the same house forever. You my dear friend are depressed and grieving. Its ok to be sad, and its ok to grieve. <br /><br />While you are grieving the loss of your dream you need contact on a weekly basis with adults that arent your ex-wife and her hubby, nor T. Get yourself on the internet and look up Meetup.com. There are many, many groups and while a LGBT group would be ideal, dont feel constrained by that one single part of who you are.<br /><br />Get out, without the pressures of dating, and just be with others. Many of the groups get together for movies, or dinners, hikes, etc. Getting away from work, away from the kids and the ex-wife even for one night a week should help you find your level again. <br /><br />And who knows, you might find some really cool people to be friends with! Good luck and hugs my friend.Biki Honkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06731335682679434307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-85313337588703450092014-11-22T14:50:29.170-05:002014-11-22T14:50:29.170-05:00You're in this mode too?
I often feel the sam...You're in this mode too?<br /><br />I often feel the same way. Not sure exactly how to solve this problem. Ideas??<br /><br />Spending time with your kids is a good thing! The stronger the relationship, the better.RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.com