tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post6139831511030900702..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: The Whiny Homojimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-61970125075549015952009-08-29T18:41:07.649-04:002009-08-29T18:41:07.649-04:00Yes, it is terrifying. You can take the painful l...Yes, it is terrifying. You can take the painful leap sooner, or spend years of dribbling out the pain and shame. <br /><br />It is not your "fault" who you are.Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-39359817123060297662009-08-24T20:41:54.216-04:002009-08-24T20:41:54.216-04:00Jim, thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment....Jim, thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. New friends are always welcomed. I look forward to reading your blog as well. Life is never simple. Be strong.Stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11483662500004895811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-52271045228565181762009-08-24T11:18:08.498-04:002009-08-24T11:18:08.498-04:00Oh my, a married gay guy, how unusual. I did that...Oh my, a married gay guy, how unusual. I did that for 30+ years, my divorce has now been final for about a month. Long before we decided to complete the seperation with the legal document I moved out of our home. I was lucky, I found my man straight (well we're not straight) away and we have made a life together going on 4 years now.<br /><br />It's not going to be easy for you, the actual moving out, but in my experience you can't actually move forward until you do move out.<br /><br />My ex and I....will let me just say she's my best friend, always will be. It's not always easy for Geoff to understand, but accept it he does.manxxmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04356862387136173023noreply@blogger.com