tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post6295449768887535817..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Things I am Really Afraid of.jimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-43458947992485907332011-10-14T01:39:46.468-04:002011-10-14T01:39:46.468-04:00I love you right now. You have brought such a sen...I love you right now. You have brought such a sense of peice to my life I can even explain it. First of all I feel the same way about my husband as you do K. The connection, I beleive he feels the same way. I know he feels the same way you do about the financials, moving out and still being close friends. Is this working out for you guys? Again thank you for your inspiration!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-65002607954114183032009-12-07T12:48:28.834-05:002009-12-07T12:48:28.834-05:00I will wish you all the best of luck, and try to h...I will wish you all the best of luck, and try to hang onto your concern for your ex - it will make things smoother down the road.Bigghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01142387994755864057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-12933243276246873722009-12-06T20:08:07.259-05:002009-12-06T20:08:07.259-05:00Hi Jim, I just read Michael-in-Norfolk's post ...Hi Jim, I just read Michael-in-Norfolk's post about your situation. This is my first visit to your blog, so of course I don't know anything about your relationship with your wife, what you've told her, what she's done, etc. <br /><br />I know a few gay men who have been married then come out later in life. Some of them are on excellent terms with their ex-wives. <br /><br />How long has your wife known you are gay? Just from reading this post and the one you posted Friday, I get the impression that she is a very reasonable woman. It's obvious that you love her very much. I like your twins analogy. I hope the two of you can remain friends. Does she know anyone else in her situation? Anyone whose husband divorced her because he's gay? Or for that matter, anyone who is straight but supportive of homosexuality? <br /><br />Good luck!Javahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17377033663576614925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-69012505471039592232009-12-06T17:30:16.526-05:002009-12-06T17:30:16.526-05:00I appreciate your concern, but I'm just not wo...I appreciate your concern, but I'm just not worried about it. She's talked to all her friends, her family, everyone for over 18 months. If she was going to try to go crazy, it would have happened by now. Even if it was possible for her to "destroy" me, it's really not who she is.jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-54834103655687223032009-12-06T16:53:37.964-05:002009-12-06T16:53:37.964-05:00She's right....she could destroy you if she wa...She's right....she could destroy you if she wanted. You'll give her more money than any court? You might be surprised about that.<br /><br />You may want to lock up this deal quickly. All you need is for her to start talking to girlfriends, etc....become bitter and really cause problems.RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.com