tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post6890960829452776322..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Formerly Married Gaysjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-13893450253820000212010-09-09T08:47:24.353-04:002010-09-09T08:47:24.353-04:00Being a member of "the club" I feel that...Being a member of "the club" I feel that we understand that a relationship can feel firmer because it is recognized by the state (read here......churches aren't a necessity). It gives the relationship structure. I'm not saying that it makes then all work, we know this isn't true, but it gives structure (from taxes to inheritance rights, etc.). But I also feel that when the opposition to gay marriage finally bites the dust young gay people won't struggle any more than young straight couples when it comes to establishing a "home".manxxmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04356862387136173023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-12040629894690125182010-09-09T01:10:43.021-04:002010-09-09T01:10:43.021-04:00I agree with everything you have said in this post...I agree with everything you have said in this post. You are so fortunate that you have T and that he seems like a soul mate for you. May you have the same type of relationship with him that you have had with K.<br /><br />My ex-wife and I are still very close friends and communicate frequently and I still love her, but more like a sister than a wife. I have finally found a gay soul mate, but at present we are still living 3 hours apart in our separate homes, but I look forward to the day we can be in each other's arms daily.Uncutplushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456398466578990531noreply@blogger.com