tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post7861087226575221793..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Off the Gridjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-7918963264003871092009-08-15T15:33:39.322-04:002009-08-15T15:33:39.322-04:00For me, the limbo brought an anxiety that the kids...For me, the limbo brought an anxiety that the kids knew was there, even though they did not know what it was. It came out in a lot of unhealthy ways. Now, it is better.<br /><br />Now, they know dad is much better. And they know dad is gay. The Truth is better than a lie. There is pain and upset, but it gets better.<br /><br />The other option for me was dribbling out the pain and upset over years, and years, and years, much as I had been doing.<br /><br />I hope you can enjoy you time away. But I realize it may be mixed.Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.com