tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post8302477537780012334..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: One Way Trackjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-45321304473521091602011-04-13T19:27:18.352-04:002011-04-13T19:27:18.352-04:00I'm always fascinated by the difference betwee...I'm always fascinated by the difference between the communication of words and deeds.<br /><br />In my case, my ex wife ran up large credit card bills. While it appeared to be about her education, I now believe she was trying to provoke a conflict that would bring us together. To her amazement, I simply cut off our joint credit and continued peaceably. <br /><br />So I'm unclear on what I think about several sites of gay men who announce they are gay and the relationship continues. It sure is a lot different than my experience. For us, the lack of fighting over credit led to predivorce and then my gay status turned things ballistic. <br /><br />My biggest prayer then was that I would not turn into a person of hate nor would I be wounded by her rage. <br /><br />God bless you both in this time and my prayer for you is the same as the prayer I had for myself. <br /><br />RonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-19294989727333469392011-04-12T02:33:01.692-04:002011-04-12T02:33:01.692-04:00And how many times had you dumped me to go back to...And how many times had you dumped me to go back to your wife in all that time?...Five?Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.com