tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post8556929866003602005..comments2023-12-24T15:38:38.348-05:00Comments on Conflicting Clarity: Too Isolatedjimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16886998354761882106noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-19521025009650359912013-02-25T21:28:09.708-05:002013-02-25T21:28:09.708-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-91871718336063102622013-02-25T00:51:53.667-05:002013-02-25T00:51:53.667-05:00Jim & T, Please talk to each other directly. ...Jim & T, Please talk to each other directly. You love each other and can figure it out together face-to-face.<br /><br />T, let Jim expand his circle of friends as he needs to do. You are still at the center of his life with his children. Jim needs friends. Let him have them. They will never replace the love that he has for you. They will help him understand himself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-38552916227094665192013-02-24T06:23:45.648-05:002013-02-24T06:23:45.648-05:00Has anyone ever witnessed two Chinese people talk ...Has anyone ever witnessed two Chinese people talk when they are excited? I was like that. I was not upset. Jim misunderstood me...cultural differences. Cultural differences make Jim and me like two rainbows, one American rainbow and one Asian rainbow. We are two gay rainbows.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-833239338673454292013-02-24T06:13:19.110-05:002013-02-24T06:13:19.110-05:00Clarification: I am a part-time extrovert.Clarification: I am a part-time extrovert.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-70725406441167468512013-02-23T23:20:46.651-05:002013-02-23T23:20:46.651-05:00Why didn't you go talk to K and AJ about it?Why didn't you go talk to K and AJ about it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-47474824982907832942013-02-23T21:28:39.376-05:002013-02-23T21:28:39.376-05:00Have friends because they are friends not because ...Have friends because they are friends not because you are dependent on having friends.<br /><br />My sisters and I have been through a lot together. We spent our whole life together to get to this point. You don't have that. However, you have your kids. You have been building a sacred friendship with them. Then, you will have grandkids. I don't have that. And I won't have that. Does this mean it's bad for me and good for you, or vice versa? No. It's good for both of us. We have loved ones who will be there for us.<br /><br />Plus, we have each other. <br /><br />We should be happy and make the best of what we have. Only we can make ourselves happy.<br /><br />Think...<br /><br />You are an introvert, and you have an extrovert as a boyfriend.<br /><br />You are a ....., and I am a .....<br /><br />You are......; I am ......<br /><br />You are......; I am ......<br /><br />You are......; I am ......<br /><br />We are both.......!<br /><br /><br />And you DO have friends that you can talk to. Don't forget about the old friends while wishing for new ones. <br /><br />I love you. And the next time we meet, I will .......... you!Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07010105665796027175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7657524303983911401.post-17103246362150487582013-02-23T20:30:00.847-05:002013-02-23T20:30:00.847-05:00Here are some ideas: attend open and affirming chu...Here are some ideas: attend open and affirming churches and synagogues, start a group on Meetup.com, volunteer with some organizations working for civil rights, join a gay softball team. I know how you feel because I'm in the same boat about 600 miles to your north. Make an effort.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com