Feeling Good ... Mostly.

I had a pretty good weekend.  I did a bunch of stuff with K and the kids.  K and I have been getting along really well.


On Saturday, T and I went out.  We had a good time together and talked about a lot of things.  He is a good listener and he has good perspectives, most of the time.  One thing he told me is that I need to stop feeling guilty about my situation.  "Just stop it." he said.  


That is the same thing I have heard from my shrink, from K, from my mother, and from people who have commented here.  Now all I need to do is do it.  It's one thing to know intellectually what to do, it is another to do it in real life.