I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life.
I went to see T today. I had to help him with a problem that he had. Once we got that resolved, we got in the car and headed to the store. On the way we talked until I got a call from K. By the time I was finished with that, T was finished shopping and checking out.
As we headed back to T's house he got a call. He was speaking Vietnamese so I didn't know what it was all about. As he was talking and I was driving, I reached over and took his hand. His fingers closed around my hand.
When his call was complete, he looked out the window and said nothing. I was driving and I sand nothing. We were still holding hands.
There was something in that moment of silence that really caused an explosion of love feeling inside me.
So glad you're finally starting to feel happy. Remember that was the whole point of the exercise. You've been and are going through some tough times but you've now built foundations for a happy second part of your life. Peace!
I am gay man in his 40's who was married for 18 years to a straight woman, who is still my very best friend. We have 4 children together. She is now remarried and we still want to be supportive of each other and make a stable family for our kids.
Cast of Characters
Jim: That's me
K: The wonderful woman I married in 1993. We divorced in November 2011, and she is still my best friend.
T: My ex-boyfriend. We were together from 2008 to 2013. He is still an important person in my life.
AJ: K's new husband. They got married December 2011.
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2 comments:
Awesome. Love is so wonderful! I can almost feel your love leap off the page!
So glad you're finally starting to feel happy. Remember that was the whole point of the exercise. You've been and are going through some tough times but you've now built foundations for a happy second part of your life. Peace!
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