Time is at a premium for me these days. Having just come back from vacation, then having my middle son in the hospital for 2 days (He's fully recovered.) and then finding out about a re-org at work has been pretty stressful. I have found out my boss's contract was not renewed. I got along really well with him. He was the kind of boss that tells you the goals you have to achieve and then goes away until you tell him you're done. My new boss has a reputation as a micro-manager, but since he is based 4000 miles and 5 time zones away, I am hoping micro-managing will be difficult for him and he will just give up. I am not a task monkey. I am a highly, skilled professional with almost 20 years of experience in my field. They are paying me a lot of that experience too. If he will leave me alone, he will get the results the company wants. But tonight I am not worried about that. Tonight T is coming to my house. He will come right after work, we will have dinner at my house (Yikes, what will I make???) and then he will stay the night. He does not come nearly enough, but I live for these all night visits. I love having him sleeping beside me (even though for a small guy he snores like a buzz saw). Just having him there will me makes me so happy. We don't even have to have sex. I mean sex is nice, but if I had to choose between having a few hours of sex and then going home, or spending all night cuddled next to him, I would take the cuddling any day of the week.
I am gay man in his 40's who was married for 18 years to a straight woman, who is still my very best friend. We have 4 children together. She is now remarried and we still want to be supportive of each other and make a stable family for our kids.
Cast of Characters
Jim: That's me
K: The wonderful woman I married in 1993. We divorced in November 2011, and she is still my best friend.
T: My ex-boyfriend. We were together from 2008 to 2013. He is still an important person in my life.
AJ: K's new husband. They got married December 2011.
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