Of course I love the way he looks. I love his smaller frame (compared to me), his round face, and his thick jet black hair. I love the shape of his eyes, and don't get me started on shape of his ass... Yes, I think Asian men in general are attractive and of course T in particular. I guess at this point, I am so used to it, it does not really occur to me any more. He is not my Asian partner. He is just my partner.
As much as I bitch about how I want some things to be different, I really like that he and I come from different backgrounds. I like that, even after almost 5 years, there is still a lot of us to discover about each other. I like that when I eat dinner at his house, there is often something new to try. Even if it is something I have had before, it's something I only get at his house. That makes it special and I like that.
I have heard about something called the "Asian Inferiority Complex". There are a could of blogs I follow written by Asian guys and they have talked about it as well. But I am not sure it actually exists. If there is such an affliction, T does not have it. He knows how great he is. He is not arrogant, or stuck up. He has a quiet confidence that I honestly find irresistible.
While I joke with him sometimes that he is lucky to have a white boyfriend like me. But we both know the truth is the other way around. I am lucky he fell in love with me.
2 comments:
Yeah, those differences you describe are cultural, not racial. The physical features are about the race. I agree with you, race really doesn't matter. Cultural differences can be difficult to overcome sometimes. I'm glad you and T get on so well together.
The "Asian Inferiority Complex" is more cultural, I doubt most Asians from Asia have that. I think it's more a symptom of Asians living in White-Dominated, Western Nations...and their lack of "strong" "masculine" accurate representations of "cool" Asian men in the media.
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