I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life.
There was a pot on the stove. In the pot was sliced beef and pork soaking in some kind of broth. It smelled awful. "You should try it." T told me. I was not so sure.
There were some vegetables. Some green and leafy. Some stringy. Some cut up. I did not recognize them. They smelled funny too. I tasted one. The flavor was strong and pungent. It was not completely unpleasant, but I would not want a salad of this stuff.
There were some noodles. By themselves, mostly tasteless. They will take on the flavors of the rest of the dish, but so far that was not very encouraging.
Maybe I was not that hungry after all. Next thing I knew there was a bowl of all these things I was not sure about in front of me. One thing my father always taught me was to eat the food I am given. It's the polite thing to do, and it's not poison. Even if I don't really like it, I should eat it and be thankful.
I watched T and his sisters. They mixed up all the ingredients in the bowl.
I did that.
I used the chopsticks to pull out some noodle and I ate that. Then a piece of beef. Then a piece of pork and a leaf of something together. Using the spoon, some broth.
To my surprise, my polite tasting, turned into real enjoyment. It turns out that even though the individual ingredients did not seem appetizing, when mixed together in the right way, they make something truly delicious.
Another life lesson learned.
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Yum, that looks like pho, noodle soup with all kinds of meats, condiments, and veggies. Add some fish and hot sauce and it's delicious. We have lots of it here in Hawaii.
Another life lesson for you, Jim, is that you should know that I am always right and that cleaning my coi pond, digging holes for my trees, removing weeds in my yard, cleaning the gutters, watering my plants,...what else..., washing my car...hmmm, yeap, are fun things to do... :)
I am gay man in his 40's who was married for 18 years to a straight woman, who is still my very best friend. We have 4 children together. She is now remarried and we still want to be supportive of each other and make a stable family for our kids.
Cast of Characters
Jim: That's me
K: The wonderful woman I married in 1993. We divorced in November 2011, and she is still my best friend.
T: My ex-boyfriend. We were together from 2008 to 2013. He is still an important person in my life.
AJ: K's new husband. They got married December 2011.
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4 comments:
Yum, that looks like pho, noodle soup with all kinds of meats, condiments, and veggies. Add some fish and hot sauce and it's delicious. We have lots of it here in Hawaii.
Another life lesson for you, Jim, is that you should know that I am always right and that cleaning my coi pond, digging holes for my trees, removing weeds in my yard, cleaning the gutters, watering my plants,...what else..., washing my car...hmmm, yeap, are fun things to do...
:)
Your first experience with Pho? Greg and I love it.
Actually, it wasn't Pho. The aroma was GOOOOOOD to me...LOL. He'll try Pho next. Then, he'll hang the Christmas lights early this year...LOL!!!
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