I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life.
I love all my kids and I try hard to treat them all equally, but my daughter holds my heart in a way the boys don't. What makes that ironic is that 8 years ago when K talked me into having another child, I only grudgingly agreed. Throughout her pregnancy, I was largely disengaged. It was easy since K was such a bitch for the whole 9 months. But once my daughter was born, everything in my heart changed. I was totally unprepared for the hold she would have on me.
Yesterday I spent all day with my kids. We went to church as a family, then to lunch, and then I took the kids to my house as K works at the church most of the day on Sunday.
My daughter says some crazy stuff that just makes me smile.
-------------------------------------------- I was exchanging text messages with T:
Daughter: Daddy, who are you texting? Me: It's T Daughter: Oh. You like him a lot. Me: Yes, I do.
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While my daughter was getting ready for bed... (remember she is 7)
Daughter: Daddy, you could have a girlfriend. Me: You think so? Daughter: Well, no one has asked you. Me: The only girl I ever see is you. Daughter: Dad! I'm too young to be your girlfriend. Me: Well, yes, and I'm also your father. Daughter: Yeah, that would be against the rules of love.
I am gay man in his 40's who was married for 18 years to a straight woman, who is still my very best friend. We have 4 children together. She is now remarried and we still want to be supportive of each other and make a stable family for our kids.
Cast of Characters
Jim: That's me
K: The wonderful woman I married in 1993. We divorced in November 2011, and she is still my best friend.
T: My ex-boyfriend. We were together from 2008 to 2013. He is still an important person in my life.
AJ: K's new husband. They got married December 2011.
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1 comment:
Love, Love, Love this post.
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