We have spent most of the weekend together as a family, me K and the kids. It has been OK. Most of the anger from last couple of weeks has faded some (faded, not gone).
K and I have talked about a bunch of things including a man whom is madly in love with her. I have written about D, before. She has known him for a long time and he has been in love with her for all that time. I know K loves him to, but as a close friend. I doubt he would be able to be the man that K needs, but the truth is, it is none of my business.
The important thing for me is that she is re-opening her mind to the idea of moving on. She also is thinking of me as a friend she can confide in. I did not offer advice, but listened as she talked. I asked questions when I needed to clarify things. She seems like she need to talk and I let her.
Later we talked he going back to school. Kind of a sore subject. She does not really want to and she was perfectly happy having me support her and now she has to prepare to support herself. "I have more than a little resentment about that, you know."
I don't blame her, I know it's hard for her and that hurts me a lot.
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