Thursday, June 24, 2010

Happy Family Dream

Tomorrow is my daughter's 6th birthday.  This is her with K's horse.  

On Saturday we will have a party for her and some of the kids from her class at the horse barn.  We will have a couple of horses giving rides to the kids.  There will be games and other activities for the kids. It should be a really good time, as long as it is not too hot.

I have extra reason to be happy.  T is coming to the party.  I am so excited about it.  It is one of the part of my dream coming true.  I may be exaggerating a little, but one of my dreams is to have family events like Thanksgiving or a birthday, with me, my kids, my partner, K and her husband.  And everyone happy and getting along.

I know that T will be a little uncomfortable.  The last time he was at my house when K was here, she was still angry about me coming out and the approaching end of our marriage.  Now things in my house are different.  K is not longer angry.   Her and I are in a good place.  And she is no longer angry with T.  She has a new man who really cares about her and she about him.  Things are different.

After the party, I have invited him back to the house.  I know that will be difficult for him.  It will be awkward for him.  But I think it will only be awkward until it is not.  We have to push through this and now that K and I are at peace with where we are, it will be much easier for T.


manxxman said... will only be awkward until it's not.......and that does happen.

Java said...

I hope everyone has a marvelous time. It sounds like fun.