I spent most of the day with K and the kids, but this (pictured above) is what I was thinking about most of the day.
I got up early and headed to K's house to meet up with her and the kids where we went off to church. After church we all went to lunch and then to the mall to get some school shoes for the little kids. Basically it was a nightmare. K was stressed out and cranky. The kids were cranky and most of the time they made her crankier.
All the time I was thinking about T. I was thinking about my man and how much I wished he was with me. All the madness would have been more bearable if he was there with me.
One of the things I have noticed lately is how I have been thinking about him. Every time I do anything I think about how it would be better, more fun, less awful, if I was doing it with T.
I am gay man in his 40's who was married for 18 years to a straight woman, who is still my very best friend. We have 4 children together. She is now remarried and we still want to be supportive of each other and make a stable family for our kids.
Cast of Characters
Jim: That's me
K: The wonderful woman I married in 1993. We divorced in November 2011, and she is still my best friend.
T: My ex-boyfriend. We were together from 2008 to 2013. He is still an important person in my life.
AJ: K's new husband. They got married December 2011.
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