Rob said: "You are very lucky. This is the easiest divorce I've ever heard of. Probably the fact that she's falling right into the arms of another guy helps."
Rob is right. T and I have talked about that before. A year and a half ago, K did not think that she had any prospects. She was pushing 40 and with 4 kids and a gay ex-husband. She was not feeling very good about herself or her future.
I think because of that she was reluctant to let me go. Whenever I wanted to go out with T, or do anything out of the house, I would get a lot of shit. When T and I were together it was difficult to really be with him because I was always worried about how much crap I would get when I got back home.
Today, that is not the case. Occasionally, I get a little crap, but usually that is when we are trying to coordinate when she can go out and when I can. Or who is paying for the sitter if we need one.
I think it is a good thing that K has found AJ so quickly. Things are still not moving fast enough for her liking, but she hates waiting for anything. Now when I go to see T, I can focus on him. I can enjoy being near him and I never have to worry about it.