I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life.
I am a political junkie. My views are generally center left (VERY left on social issues) and I like most of the personalities on MSNBC.
Most days I come home from work and follow a similar routine. I change out of my work clothes and put on shorts and a t shirt. Then I usually make dinner for the kids. Occasionally, K will have made something for the kids and I dish it out. She rarely eats with us.
Then the kids play, do homework or play Xbox or Wii. About 7:30 I start getting them into baths or showers ahead of bed time. Usually K is not home and I am doing bedtime on my own. Most of the kids are old enough to take care of themselves, but my daughter still needs her daddy.
Most evenings, after the kids are in bed, I curl up on the couch alone, with my BlackBerry PlayBook, a diet Pepsi, and Chris Matthews.
I am gay man in his 40's who was married for 18 years to a straight woman, who is still my very best friend. We have 4 children together. She is now remarried and we still want to be supportive of each other and make a stable family for our kids.
Cast of Characters
Jim: That's me
K: The wonderful woman I married in 1993. We divorced in November 2011, and she is still my best friend.
T: My ex-boyfriend. We were together from 2008 to 2013. He is still an important person in my life.
AJ: K's new husband. They got married December 2011.
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2 comments:
Positive thinking:
1. similar routine: less chaos
2. change out of work clothes: i love you naked
3. shorts and a T-shirt: sexy
4. make dinner for the kids: good dad--one of the reasons why i love you
5. K is not home: less chance for you to be yelled at
6. your daughter still needs you: she's cute
7. curl up on the couch: relaxation, comfort
8. BlackBerry Playbook: luxurious technology item that you like and have
9. diet Pepsi: refreshing after a day of hard work
10. watching Chris Matthews: a little healthier than porn addiction...
11. alone tonight: tomorrow you'll get to hold me and do whatever you wish...:)
If you don't go for custody, my T and I will come and kick you.
I have the most wonderful kids in the world and I got to keep them and they love my T. Ron
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